So I have been struggling with this one. Everyone seems to have a different opinion.
Basically I have learned several things:
1) These bulletins are unlikely to become ADs
2) For a 91 operator, there is some difference of opinion, but most likely they are not mandatory at hot section
3) For a 135 (or forestry) operator, there is again some difference of opinion, but they are probably mandatory at hot section
4) For 91 or 135 operators, they are most likely mandatory at overhaul
5) There is very minimal likelihood of an actual safety issue, at least for a low-cycle corporate operator
For me, what it really boils down to is resale value of the airplane. If the airplane is going to be worth more because it has new first stage wheels, that is what would make this worthwhile for me. Given that if I don't do them now, they will probably be required at overhaul, that implies that there will be some value to it, but none of the Commander salespeople who I have spoken with seem to think that there is.
Even worse, of course, would be if 5 years from now I go to sell the airplane and it sits on the market because I didn't do the wheels... on the other hand, it's a lot of money and I would be sad if it had no effect on the value of the airplane at all.
I have also heard that there is some chance that once the engines are at the engine shop, the story may change (salesman vs. inspection department) and I may be told that, in fact, they are mandatory for 91 or 135. Apparently this happened to someone already.