Ignitors are not that expensive... personally, I don't worry about it that much. I run them when there is more than a trace of ice on the airplane, so not any time I'm in IMC, or even any time I have the inlet heat on. Particularly, I am concerned with ice on the spinners, and particularly when descending or flying into warmer air where it will melt and fly off.
Based on your description of the auto system, I'm not sure I would operate any differently.